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Serves On Husband

Home from work, should the time to beristrirahat for husband as head of household. Yet many of us have encountered the phenomenon in which they actually are still preoccupied with all sorts of household chores while his wife instead of the neighbor girl talk. How wife shalihah this address?

Wife of one of the characteristics that indicate shalihah good interaction with her husband is submissive to her husband and help her work to the extent he could. He will not let her husband serve himself while he sat passively watching what he did. He was reluctant when her husband until tersibukkan with housework, cooking, washing, making beds, and similar, while he was still able to handle it. So it is not surprising that we find a wife shalihah busy day by providing service to her husband, starting from preparing the bed, eat and drink, clothing and other needs of the husband. All done with full compliance and broad-mindedness with the intention of worship to Allaah. And this really is a form of action to ihsannya husband, who was expected of him he'll enjoy the goodness.

Submissive to their husbands has been performed by major women more noble than the shahabiyyah, as Asma 'bintu Ash-Abi Bakr Siddiq may Allaah be pleased' anhuma the submissive to Az-Zubair Ibn al-Awwam may Allaah be pleased 'anhu, her husband. He was riding her husband's animal care, feeding and drinking horse, sewing and mending his bucket, and knead the flour to make cakes. He who carry the seeds of her husband's estate while the distance where he lived with the land about 2 / 3 farsakh1. "(Narrated by Bukhari no. 5224 and Muslim no. 2182)

Similarly bintu Rasulillah Fatima khidmatnya peace 'alaihi wa sallam in the house of her husband, Ali ibn Abi Talib, may Allaah be pleased' anhu, until his hands blister for grinding grain. When Fatima came to the place of his father to ask for a maid, his father's noble to give guidance to a better:


ألا أدلكما على ما هو خير لكما من خادم? إذا أويتما إلى فراشكما أو أخذتما مضاجعكما فكبرا أربعا وثلاثين وسبحا ثلاثا وثلاثين وحمدا ثلاثا وثلاثين, فهذا خير لكما من خادم


"Shall I show you both what is better for you than a servant? When you come to your bed or to lie down, read Allahu Akbar 34 times, 33 times Subhanallah, Alhamdulillah and 33 times. This is better for you than a servant. "(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, no. 6318 and Muslim no. 2727)

Companions of the Messenger of Allaah 'alaihi wa sallam, may Allaah be pleased Abdillah Jabir bin' anhu, marrying a widow to humble him by taking care of his sisters are still small. Jabir story: "My father died and he left the 7 or 9 girls. So I married a widow. The Messenger of Allaah 'alaihi wa sallam asked me:


تزوجت يا جابر? فقلت: نعم. فقال: بكرا أم ثيبا? قلت: بل ثيبا. قال: فهلا جارية تلاعبها وتلاعبك, وتضاحكها وتضاحكك? قال فقلت له: إن عبد الله هلك و ترك بنات, وإني كرهت أن أجيئهن بمثلهن, فتزوجت امرأة تقوم عليهن وتصلحهن. فقال: بارك الله لك, أو قال: خيرا


"Are you married, O Jabir?"

"Yes," I replied.

"With a girl or a widow?" He said.

"With the widow," I replied.

"Why are you not married to the girl, so you can play with it and he played with. And you can laugh with him and he could laugh with you? "He said.

"My father, Abdullah, died and she left the girls and I do not like to bring in their midst the same woman with them. So I married a woman who can look after and care for them, "I replied.

He said: "May God bless you", or he said: "May the good for you." (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, no. 5367 and Muslim no. 1466)

Mihshan ibn Husayn said: "My aunt tells me, he said:" I never went to the Messenger of Allaah 'alaihi wa sallam as a necessity, so he asked:


أي هذه! أذات بعل? قلت: نعم. قال: كيف أنت له? قلت: ما آلوه إلا ما عجزت عنه. قال: فانظري أين أنت منه, فإنما هو جنتك ونارك


"O woman, if you have a husband?"

"Yes," I replied.

"How are you against your husband?" He said.

"I do not reduce reduce the observance and submissive to her, except what I could not fulfilled," I replied.

"Look at where the whereabouts of your husband, because he is a heaven and hell," the word he. (Narrated by Ibn Abi Abi Shaybah and other than, dishahihkan sanadnya by Ash-Shaykh al-Albani in Adabuz Zifaf vol, pp. 179)

But on the other hand, a good husband would not burden his wife with a job who could not assuming. Indeed, he saw and noticed the presence of his wife if she needed any help.

Is the Messenger of Allaah 'alaihi wa sallam is the best picture of her husband. In the midst of busy taking care of the people and preaching in the street Allaah, he took time to help his family and doing what he could do for himself without charge to his wife, as reported wives, Aisha may Allaah be pleased 'anha when al-Aswad ibn Yazid asked him:


ما كان النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم يصنع في البيت? قالت: كان يكون في مهنة أهله - تعني خدمة أهله - فإذا حضرت الصلاة خرج إلى الصلاة


"What the Prophet used to do 'alaihi wa sallam in the house?"

Ayesha may Allaah be pleased 'anha said: "He used to help the working wife. When it was time for prayers, he went out to do the prayer. "(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, no. 676, 5363)

In another narration, Aisha may Allaah be pleased 'anha said that the Messenger of Allaah job' alaihi wa sallam to do at home:


ما يصنع أحدكم في بيته, يخصف النعل ويرقع الثوب ويخيط


"He used to do what you do one at home. He patched sandals, mending clothes, and sew. "(Narrated by al-Bukhari in Al-Adabul simplex no. 540, dishahihkan ash-Shaykh al-Albani in Saheeh al vol-Adabil simplex no. 419 and Al-Mishkat no. 5822 )


كان بشرا من البشر, يفلي ثوبه ويحلب شاته


"He's human. He mended his clothes and squeezing the goat's milk ". (Narrated by al-Bukhari in Al-Adabul simplex no. 541, dishahihkan ash-Shaykh al-Albani in Saheeh al vol-Adabil simplex no. 420 and Ash-Saheehah 671)

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